Nota Bene: John Milbank and Radical Orthodoxy
Professor in Religion, Politics and Ethics at the University of Nottingham, director of the theologyphilosophycentre.co.uk. Author of "Theology and Social Theory", 1990. Creator of the Radical Orthodoxy. Seems to be some "king's way" between fundamentalism and leftism. Cf. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Milbank with links to some online texts.
P.e., he criticizes the totalitarianism of self-sacrifice as a ultimate ethical good, stressing, that self-sacrifice is opposite to communication:
"So, if attention to the other is central for a sense of the ethical, it would appear that convivial enjoyment of another is more important than suffering on his behalf. Moreover, if a person can only be known as other via communication, then I cannot remove myself as a participant in this situation. The German Roman Catholic philosopher Robert Spaemann has expressed this point very well: giving food to those in need, he observes, can occur as a one-way gift from those who have to those who have not, or it can occur in a feast, where all eat together." (
http://www.firstthings.com/article.php3?id_article=3119)